Is There Any Equality For Women?

Ever since I was a little girl I’ve been treated less than because of my gender.

Being female I feel has been one big fat CURSE.  I’m reminded of the year 1971 I was in the 3rd grade attending Wishire Crest elementary  a school that struggled with its finances.   So much so?  That the Teachers in their not so great wisdom adopted the idea of peer tutoring were the students tutor each other.   It was a disaster, I mean really!  all the students are in school to LEARN!  and not play teacher.  But that was the lame intentions of the ever so obtuse staff at my former elementary school.

One day I was being tutored by a boy who was one grade higher than myself.  I had a learning disability but of course back when I went again the adults just didn’t get it.  Anyway I was struggling to figure out a math problem…I mean I just couldn’t understand it.  It could have been that the boy helping me had all the personality of a wet dishrag & extremely ornery.

Boy you sure are stupid”  was the assholes comment.  And everyone it has went from worse to MUCH WORSE.  Boys are terrible tutors, but my interactions with the opposite sex has been to put it mildly terrible.

Men can be misogynist .   I remember on so many occasions through my whole life being treated horribly by men.  There were the dirty looks, the rolled up eyes whenever I would try to be friendly.    From an early age?  I learned not to like them much.   The biggest one is that they are truly arrogant & they think that they know every damn thing!

Well I’m here to say that they do not!  Some are actually real nice but there aren’t enough of these kinds of men.   Men earn more than women, there are still areas where it is predominantly all male.   The field of journalism is one area.

As far as I’m concerned men throw their weight around way too much.   We women are far more superior believe me when I say we are the stronger of the two genders.  You men may have the strength…but women possess a far greater strength our BRAINS.   It is here that we reign superior.  

For women to gain a foothold in equality we have to do for OURSELVES!  Lets run our own businesses create our OWN equality because lord knows we sure can’t depend on these men because they don’t want us to advance.   Women are not put on this Earth to serve a man.   That’s anachronistic bullshit.

All women deserve to prosper & we deserve to call all the shots when it comes to our own lives.   Also to never kow tow to any man who is demeaning to us. 

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Published by: The Lonely Shepard

Me: I grew up in an extremely abusive & disadvantaged family environment were both parents were really immature & their relationship messy! I was abducted by my Father at age 8 abused physically, mentally, degraded by his 2nd Wife, and I didn't see my Mother again until 4 years later, I had to risk my neck + my life to run off to seek help with the local police & this was way before there was any such laws on the books for child abuse. Think on that awhile. Had learning disabilities all throughout school by the time I graduated I learned nothing, was prepared for nothing out in the World. Think on that. Joined the United States Army right out of High School only reason I did join was that at the time there was an Army recruiter right on the High School campus & he took an interest in me. So I joined. I was really in over my head. But what else could I do? I lived with a single Mom who was emotionally unstable & I had ZERO support from anyone including the school staff + administrators. The military was hard & degrading to me as a woman but I got out with an honorable discharge. More about me: A series of dead end jobs, my mind was totally a mess after I got out of the Army, still had no support not even from the Veterans admin. My journey has been a total nightmare of: trying to find out about myself, learning about myself, how to live as an adult, all with no help. Now after long , and intensive filled journey I'm trying to get back on track with my life I want to go to school with the hope of one day attending University. I don't wish my journey on anyone. No one gave me guidance: as a child as a teen as a young adult I was all on my own! and it was real lonely , isolating, extremely frightening. Family? don't really have any. Now remember everyone I'm African American & I receive little to no respect I don't even warrant a speeding car that will slow down. "The person who sang the National Anthem sang the last note so high that no could reach it! That was intentional!" Belize from Tony Kushners play Angels In America. If you've read this far I will leave my email in case you want to leave me a msg. Those that are rude will get deleted immediately. Contact: Yogibeara425@hushmail.com

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