Why I Don’t Like Gay Pride.

The LGBT community seems so excited about the parade.    Not me.   I find it nothing short of hypocritical.  Meaning whatever nonsense about community & sticking together is just total lip service.   LGBT community seems like a bunch of sell outs trying to parody or copy the hetrosexual community.    I feel that the LGBT community has turned completely snobbish!   

If I’m wrong then hey all you lesbian sisters with the nice house, Wife  why not invite me I’m :



African American and I sure could use a good home cooked meal!

Gay female

Who struggles with all kinds of mean & nasty people who treat her bad especially the men who for one reason or another view me as some kind of threat.

I loathe how some of you think that your “all that”  you take everything for granted, you bask in all your gay glory with all your circle of friends you meet for the Sunday brunch….NO WAIT!  The Wife that cooks the Sunday brunch or dinner with those “inner circle of friends you’ve made”.    Isn’t that just swell?    You look down your nose at someone like me don’t you?   If I came up to you to say hello, would you even speak to me?  OR would you get all haughty & simply just ignore me?

It must be so nice to have your gal pals to hang with Sunday June 29th ….isn’t it?   

For me Gay Pride means nothing.    Just a bunch of pomp & circumstance, tacky costumes, nothing of substance seems to get addressed!   It’s just party, party, party, drink champagne, going to dinner parties, go to the clubs right? and doing NOTHING about social causes that are still affecting a large segment of the LGBT community. 

But hey you of the LGBT community don’t care, I mean it isn’t you that’s homeless, jobless, friendless because of the unimagineable prejudice & bigotry the LGBT is notorious for.    Selfish is a better term for some of you in the LGBT community.

Do you know what I’d like to see? How about a dyke give free or low cost beginner motorcycle lessons to some of us whose primary transportation is the BUS!   You won’t know why?  Your just too damn busy with your stupid girlfriend Jennifer or those idiot friends you make time for.

Why not do some outreach?   Believe it or not girls there are a good number of lesbians who are homeless.   And it isn’t only the damn gay youth either that everyone just loves to focus on.   Will you please take off the blind fold & look around you.   Those women you ignore are real human beings.    YOU out there?   The hot girl with the money who EVERYONE just loves, and I mean everyone.     Real popular ones yes I’m talking to you out there.    Your so popular!   Why not come down off your suburban house or condo pedestal & mingle with us real women.   You won’t.   I know, afraid of what your friends, Wife, or girlfriend would think.    Hey, that’s okay.

So don’t tell me about Gay Pride!

Gay Pride is shallow

It’s all about gay celebrities being a damn Grand Marshall  I mean who gives a rats ass if Mr Zulu is this years Grand Marshall?

I sure as hell don’t, unless he wants to make a sizable donation to some homeless shelters or donate food.

Gay Pride is not a damn party.

I feel that some of you forget that.   And its still dangerous to BE GAY!  With all this talk about gay marriage this & gay marriage that ….HELL  its damn hard just to survive & keep ones own sanity!   Cause some of you ladies out there sure love your mind games & abusive tactics and thats not including the Society at large OMG talk about some crazy,cruel, evil!  I know I was usually on the receiving end of all of that!  Which is why I trust NONE OF YOU!   

I think that the concept of Gay Pride is lost on many of you.   Money, career, the car, the girl…..IT’S NOT IMPORTANT!

It’s about helping one another, encouraging each other in their hour of need, being that shoulder for someone to cry on.

What being gay ISN’T is being mean like a bunch of immature high school adolescence.

Ellen Degeneres,  K.D. Lang, Melissa Etheridge, Indigo Girls….etc  Hey sisters I’m glad YOU’VE ARRIVED but would you please help bring some of these stuck up broads back down to Earth & get them involved in more than picking out what kind of furniture goes with the living room.   Cause some of these lesbos are so clearly OUT OF TOUCH!



Published by: The Lonely Shepard

Me: I grew up in an extremely abusive & disadvantaged family environment were both parents were really immature & their relationship messy! I was abducted by my Father at age 8 abused physically, mentally, degraded by his 2nd Wife, and I didn't see my Mother again until 4 years later, I had to risk my neck + my life to run off to seek help with the local police & this was way before there was any such laws on the books for child abuse. Think on that awhile. Had learning disabilities all throughout school by the time I graduated I learned nothing, was prepared for nothing out in the World. Think on that. Joined the United States Army right out of High School only reason I did join was that at the time there was an Army recruiter right on the High School campus & he took an interest in me. So I joined. I was really in over my head. But what else could I do? I lived with a single Mom who was emotionally unstable & I had ZERO support from anyone including the school staff + administrators. The military was hard & degrading to me as a woman but I got out with an honorable discharge. More about me: A series of dead end jobs, my mind was totally a mess after I got out of the Army, still had no support not even from the Veterans admin. My journey has been a total nightmare of: trying to find out about myself, learning about myself, how to live as an adult, all with no help. Now after long , and intensive filled journey I'm trying to get back on track with my life I want to go to school with the hope of one day attending University. I don't wish my journey on anyone. No one gave me guidance: as a child as a teen as a young adult I was all on my own! and it was real lonely , isolating, extremely frightening. Family? don't really have any. Now remember everyone I'm African American & I receive little to no respect I don't even warrant a speeding car that will slow down. "The person who sang the National Anthem sang the last note so high that no could reach it! That was intentional!" Belize from Tony Kushners play Angels In America. If you've read this far I will leave my email in case you want to leave me a msg. Those that are rude will get deleted immediately. Contact: Yogibeara425@hushmail.com

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