I was very disillusioned with LGBT community. I thought most were nice. They are not. In the 20+ years I’ve experienced such an abusive bunch of women who seem to want nothing more than to crush the spirit of other women. It’s dog eat dog betrayal and overall not the healthiest people in the world. I come out of all that pretty damaged & I need to heal. I’ve been cursed at, bullied, treated with a lot of disrespect, stalked by a woman I wasn’t friends with nor liked ( twice)who followed me to my apartment 3 times. I never want anything to do with gay women ever. I understand how some people in society dislike gay women, they’re not the nicest nor the most sensitive. I realize what I’m saying is controversial to some, however I don’t care because this is what I’ve experienced. I must say that I feel free almost at peace with my decision. I now don’t believe in intimate relationships, same sex marriage, moving in together all set ups for failure. It’s somewhat ironic to me that within the community there is all this brouhaha over getting respect when the LGBT don’t seem to respect anyone but what they want for themselves. I know for I used to hang out with some of these women who I thought were friends. Hypocrisy seems to play into most of the women’s agenda. Gossiping about someone they don’t like , jealousy, bullying. I’ve seen & experienced it all and I’m through!
What a waste of time. Despite the horrible experiences with the majority of women I’ve met I’m still optimistic but nonetheless I’m mistrustful (with good reason too) of getting close to any woman. And I’m okay with that, because let me tell you there are a lot of crazy, ill mannered ,and very , very abusive women out there. I’m not anxious to meet any of them. Aah women, such a crazy bunch. So glad I’m single. I plan on staying that way. One more thing about some gay women is that when one is attracted to another then the other woman is not aware or perhaps isn’t interested the woman who has the attraction gets all stupid & immature. Women stop having expectations. If your attracted to the woman either say hi then if nothing else is happening……it’s a sure sign the woman isn’t interested so go on your way & find someone else. Being weird won’t get you anywhere! And knock it off with the damn disrespect YOUR NOT A MAN! Stop leering, staring, and playing those stupid games and grow up for God’s sake!